90 Day Fiancé’s throuple were hoping to improve their connection after discovering some souring news, soMatt JlassiandAny Aguirredecided to go on a date, just the two of them. However,I don’t think their one-on-one time will help their throuple improve.Matt, Any, andAmani Jlassihave had a whirlwind of issues the last few episodes. Some of the90 Day Fiancéfranchisestars have been caught in lies. Some of the stars were also involved in some big blows and arguments in the last few episodes.
Their disconnect even caused them to sleep apart one night because they needed space after some intense conversations. However, to help overcome some of these issues and strengthen their bond,they thought letting Matt and Any explore their connection would help smooth over the issues they’re having. While I think that Matt and Any having alone time is good in general for their relationships, I still think their throuple is on the verge of falling apart.
The ‘90 Day Fiancé’ Throuple Isn’t Honest
I hate to say or think thatMatt and Amani might be fetishizing polyamoryin a way, but when I watch them sneakily attempt to manipulate the situation in their favor, my alarm bells start ringing. It doesn’t matter if it’s a couple, throuple, or an episode ofSister Wives,relationships are built and thrive off of communication, honesty, transparency, and trust — all qualities the90 Day Fiancéthrouple seems to be missing. Any claimed she was more in love with Amani, but only referred to her as a “friend,” to outsiders. This declaration is what pushed Any and Matt to go on a solo date in the first place.
However, when the season started, Matt and Any seemed to have a stronger connection,so I’m wondering if this is a ploy to bring them even closer together while potentially pushing Amani out of the picture. On top of that, Any seems to be secretive about a lot of other issues in her life and has the married couple sending money to her ex-boyfriend. Overall, while having solo time will help Matt and Any strengthen their connection, which in turn can strengthen the throuple, I don’t think quality time is going to fix the lies and the uneven foundation they’ve built their relationship on thus far.
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‘90 Day Fiancé’s Amani Is Selfish
To make matters worse, I thinkAmani is the ultimate villain hereand is far more selfish than the rest of the clan. First and foremost, Amani chose to hide what Any said from her husband.I understand Amani’s desire to “wait for the right time” and when they were “alone,” but I think she could’ve made more of an effort to tell her husband sooner.I also think Amani is being selfish about forcing this throuple to work because she is clearly in love with Any.
I think she’s forcing this situation to work but isn’t following her husband’s advice. Matt told his wife that her feelings came first and to see her hurt by Any’s actions changed his opinion of the throuple.Instead, though, I feel like she doesn’t care about his point of view and just wants to verify her needs and desires are satisfied. On top of this, now Amani’s meeting with Any’s ex-boyfriend, and I’m wondering how many more red flags Amani needs to see before she’s willing to move on from this situation?
Overall, there’s no denying that thethrouple has a solid connection among themand perhaps, in a different life or circumstances, they may have been able to make their situation work. However, currently, based on where they stand,I’m not convinced that Matt and Amani should get divorced to marry Any.I think they all have more work to do and I most definitely think Any has too many red flags. All of them have children and I think they really need to consider either slowing down their plans or ending their relationships before more people get hurt.
